Reproductive Experiences

In contemporary homes, starting a family is often a deliberate choice. The experience of pregnancy, the drama of giving birth, and the miracle of adoption are occasions for joy and wonder. These are also experiences that can be fraught with pain and struggle, reflecting the full spectrum of life and death. We offer prayers for those who are trying to conceive, prayers for pregnancy and childbirth, rituals for parents preparing to adopt, mourning ceremonies for miscarriages, blessings for those struggling with infertility, rituals to prepare for or acknowledge an abortion, and much more.

Latest Rituals

A Different Lilith

Staring up at the glowing orb and feeling the life in her womb, she drifted into dreams, only to be startled awake by the Voice…

childbirth, creation, God, Lilith, midrash

View from forest floor looking up at trees with green leaves; a bird soars in the blue sky above.

Shifra, a Midwife

We know how to protect a child // from hostile eyes, // and there will be more deliveries on this journey.

belonging, courage, midrash, midwives, protection, Shifra

Close-up of a baby holding an adults finger, conveying a sense of connection and tenderness.

Placenta Burial Ritual after the First 40 Days

This lovely closing ceremony marks the end of the Fourth Trimester with placenta burial.

baby, birth, celebration, placenta

Baby wearing a red dress and white headband lying on a plaid couch, looking toward the camera.

Kweer Blessings and Prayers

A collection of LGBTQ+ blessings, poems, prayers, rituals, and kavanot.

ancestors, coming out, family, intimacy, LGBTQ, mi shebeirakh, name change, polyamory, prayer, queer, rainbow, relationships, sex, shema, single, Sukkot, torah

A double rainbow appears in a cloudy sky above utility poles and buildings.

Ritual for an Aborted or Miscarriaged Child

Madeleine Sklar shares a ritual and poem for the grief of a miscarried child.

abortion, grief, miscarriage

Two individuals in floral-patterned clothing holding hands outdoors, conveying a sense of support and connection.

Due

“you will know a tidal surge / part marvel part mystery…”

parenting, pregnancy

a pregnant woman touches her belly, a dog lies sleeping at her feet

For Stillbirth and Infant Loss: Baby Naming and Goodbye Ritual

This powerful ritual is designed for parents who have faced infant loss.

infant loss, stillbirth

black ribbon

The First Time

“No words can describe it. / The first time I held her on my chest…”

grandmother, Shehekhiyanu

a new infant

Prayers for Decision Making Regarding Unused Embryos

Prayers for either discarding or donating frozen embryos one choose not to use

embryo, infertility

light brown hands cupping light pink petals

Until We Held You: Poem for a New Baby

“We have been waiting for you”

baby naming, childbirth, love

closeup of newborn white baby held by adult white hands