Memorial Prayer for Transgender Day of Remembrance

Found In: Mourning & Bereavement

Tags: LGBTIQ

God full of mercy, bless the souls of all who are in our hearts on this Transgender Day of Remembrance.  We call to mind today young and old, of every race, faith, and gender experience, who have died by violence.  We remember those who have died because they would not hide, or did not pass, or did pass, or stood too proud, or looked like someone who did.  Today we name them: the reluctant activist; the fiery hurler of heels; the warrior for quiet truth; the one whom no one really knew.

As many as we can name, there are thousands more whom we cannot, and for whom no Kaddish may have been said.  We mourn their senseless deaths, and give thanks for their lives, for their teaching, and for the brief glow of each holy flame.  We pray for the strength to carry on their legacy of vision, bravery, and love.

And as we remember them, we remember with them the thousands more who have taken their own lives.  We pray for resolve to root out the injustice, ignorance, and cruelty that grow despair.  And we pray, God, that all those who perpetrate hate and violence will speedily come to understand that Your creation has many faces, many genders, many holy expressions.

Blessed are they, who have allowed their divine image to shine in the world.

Blessed is God, in Whom no light is extinguished. 

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Rabbi Reuben Zellman
Cooperberg-Rittmaster Rabbinical Intern, Congregation Beit Simchat Torah,
New York City
November 2005

Originally published in Siddur B'chol L'vavcha by Congregation Beth Simchat Torah (pg. 198, 2008 edition).