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Milestone Birthdays

Birthday cake and presents are fun, but ritual adds meaning and depth to milestone birthday celebrations as we express gratitude and blessings for another year lived.
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Simchat HaDorot

A ceremony organized around Havdalah for a 90th-birthday celebration with children and grandchildren [more]

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Tags: havdalah, priestly blessing

Turning 80

A ceremony planned by a daughter for family and friends to celebrate her mother's 80th birthday [more]

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Tags: candle lighting

Simchat Chokhmah

The original Simchat Chokhmah from which all others have derived. Elements include the donning of a shroud, the taking of a new name, and the planting of a tree. [more]

Found In: Milestone Birthdays, Becoming an Elder

Tags: birthdays, Debbie Friedman, Marcia Falk, tree planting

Becoming a Crone

A Simchat Chochma (Joy of Wisdom Ceremony) for a 60th birthday. Elements include the donning of a shroud, making vows, and taking a new name. [more]

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Tags: Debbie Friedman

Simchat Chochmah V'hatchalah: A Celebration of Wisdom and New Beginnings

A ceremony for a 60th-birthday celebrating 60 as the inauguration of a new stage of life "that promised great adventure" [more]

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Tags: Debbie Friedman, Marge Piercy, mi sheberakh

Croning Ritual

A ceremony for a woman to celebrate her 50th birthday in the context of her Rosh Hodesh group [more]

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Passage into the Flaming Fifties

A short and simple ceremony marking the occasion of a 50th birthday [more]

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Tags: Debbie Friedman, kiddush, shehekheyanu

Turning 40: A Ritual Talmudically

A ritual for turning 40 and banishing the demons of self-criticism [more]

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At 33, While Buying Bathing Suits

A poem in which a daughter reflects on her mother's and her mother's friends' comfort in their aging bodies in contrast to her own struggle to accept herself [more]

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A Personal Seder to Celebrate Aging

A ritual to celebrate aging and affirm the author's intention to remain visible and continue to work for personal and political [more]

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Tags: Judy Chicago