Sanctifying Intimate Relationships

Intimate relationships bring two people together in a unique emotional and physical connection. This is something to celebrate, whether through the public festivity of a wedding, or in the private reflection of immersion in the mikveh. Sanctifying our intimate relationships elevates these unions and gives them a context of meaning and joy.

Tena'im

By Joshua Yan and Alison Engel
The tena'im document, a prewedding contract of the conditions on which the marriage will stand, is an Ashkenazic tradition of engagement. Here is one example.   more
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Tena'im (Engagement) Ceremony

By Joshua Yan and Alison Engel
A tena'im ceremony based on a traditional version but using a new tena'im contract spelling out the couple's mutual obligations in marriage   more
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Ketubah (Wedding Contract)

By Rabbi Rona Shapiro
An article about the ketubah, or wedding contract, which describes its history, new ketubot, egalitarian ketubot, and alternatives to the ketubah   more
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Conservative Ante-Nuptial Agreement

A Conservative version of an agreement between the bride and groom to abide by the decision of a rabbinic court in the event of divorce, thus abrogating the situation of agunah, a "chained woman" whose husband refuses her a religious divorce   more
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Lieberman Clause

Meant to be appended to the traditional ketubah and written in Aramaic by the late, great Rabbi Saul Lieberman, this clause requires the husband to grant a religious divorce (get) to his wife, should the marriage dissolve. This clause is usually used by Conservative Jews instead of the Orthodox pre-nuptial agreement.   more
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Orthodox Prenuptial Agreement

An agreement signed by the bride and groom prior to the wedding which abrogates the situation of a recalcitrant husband who refuses his wife a religious divorce   more
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